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DARKNLVLY2 (Original Message)

Sent: 3/25/2004 9:44 AM

I appreciate you comments I wasn't wanting to give up my puppies but I
wasn't going to have a place for my family to live. I was going to take the
best offer I could and if they say they didn't want dogs and their home what
could i say. I wasn't just going to give her up but find her a good home. I
love precious i have had her since she was 6 weeks old and she is very
spoiled and well kept, but like you said when put in situation i'm not
saying that I wouldn't let someone adopt her. I feltl like no one but a
couple supported my decision. I blessed to be buying my own home now and she
will be staying. God works everything out for a reason. Again thanks for
your support God Bless.

d>From: MARTINS140@aol.com
>To: PWILSON666@hotmail.com
>Subject: cocker site post
>Date: Thu, 25 Mar 2004 09:13:06 EST
>
>I am a member but I do not post very often.
>Wow, some members came down so hard on you. Or maybe not hard but very
>rude,
>they could have said the same thing but nicer.
>
>I will be the first to say that I would never for any reason give up my
>dogs.
>BUT... I have never been in a position where I had or might have to.
>Until someone is wearing your shoes they do not know what you are going
>through.
>
>I hope you can keep him and continue to give the best to him.
>
>Good luck
>Rita7cockers ((I have 8 now)

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From:

manuelNgabby

Sent: 3/26/2004 11:39 PM

I've re-read all the replies regarding your message "NEED YOUR HELP" and everyone that replied tried to help. You were looking for someone to give/sell Precious to (I'm really not sure) and everyone that replied provided some sort of advice or emotional support. I was worried about Precious (I still am) and I think that's how everyone else felt or else they wouldn't have bothered to reply. I hope you don't feel unwelcomed here at My Cocker Spaniel because that's certainly not the case. We care about you and Precious.

Manuel
MCS Manager

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JennyLynn-Name-Is-Taken

Sent: 3/27/2004 12:37 PM

Honestly, I don't think anyone was being rude. Everyone offered the advice that was asked for. Just because it wasn't sugar coated doesn't mean it wasn't good advice, and everyone should remember that when someone is asking for advice in public, they should be prepared to get all kinds.

And, for the record, I have been in your position and know exactly what you're going through, which is why I sincerely hoped that you would be able to find a way to work it out.

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From:

MiHannah1

Sent: 3/28/2004 12:51 PM

I might have not sounded to sugar coated in my reply.

I just remember that when we had rental property,I know how

much animals met to the tenents and if they really thought that much of theres

I let them keep them on the property but with a special animal deposit.Most

were willing to do so.

There for,suggesting such a deposit your self might have made a difference.

I am sooooooooooooo glad that you got to keep Precious..I know you really

love her.

I sure could never give my dog up for anything.

I think I would live on the streets in a cardboard box first,

naturally ,with her!! I know this tho would never happen tho...

"Hugs and Snugs "to you and Precious.

Anita

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DARKNLVLY2

Sent: 3/29/2004 10:03 AM

First of all this will be my last chat with this group, and to correct the statements I stated that a few was rude and not all. I agree some tried to help, and the others was judging me. I don't want anyone to feel sorry for my family and I, because Precious is my pet and whether I sell, put her up for adoption, or give her away is my decision and I was going to make my own decison any way. I was need you help with making the chose. I feel like I was had to defend myself and I was very uncomfortable with the chats. And for them who said they would never get rid of and sell their pet never know what circumstatnce has to bring that would allow the to do so, so be never say never. I will may the right chose for Precious.

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